Mary Ellen Hochstetler

Mary Ellen Hochstetler, 85, of Abbeville, SC, passed away on Friday, July 31, 2026, surrounded by her loving family. Born on May 18, 1941, she was the daughter of the late Harvey and Salome Byler Yoder.

Preceded in death by her parents, four brothers—David Yoder, stillborn brother Samuel Yoder, Floyd Yoder, and Andy Yoder—two sisters, Barbara Yoder and Alma (Yoder) Hertzler, and her son-in-law Lee Byler.

Mary Ellen leaves behind a legacy of love, cherished by her husband, Ernest Hochstetler, with whom she shared 58 wonderful years. She is survived by her children: Jay Wendell (Sheri) Beiler Hochstetler of Abbeville, SC, Carmen Byler (the late Lee) of Abbeville, SC, Thelma (Robert) Beachy of Plain City, OH, Marlene (Daniel) Brenneman of Virginia Beach, VA; seventeen grandchildren, and her siblings Joe (Lisa) Yoder, Mark (Martha) Yoder, Sharon (James) Mast, Regina (Giovonni) Urso.

Mary Ellen was a devoted follower of Jesus from her youth, impacting her family profoundly with her godly life. She loved each grandchild individually and had a special bond with her grandson Gabriel, who has special needs. Her home was a haven of hospitality, often hosting Sunday lunches and gatherings. Though not a gourmet cook, she provided simple, enjoyed meals and was a gifted seamstress, creative problem-solver, and generous in spirit. Her love for Jesus inspired others and reminded everyone to trust Him with life’s challenges, honoring her belief that this is “real life.”

The family will receive friends at Cold Spring Mennonite Church, 226 Cold Spring Church Rd, Abbeville, SC 29620, from 2:00 PM – 4:00 PM and 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM on Sunday, August 2, 2026. Funeral services will be held at Cold Spring Mennonite Church on Monday, August 3, at 10:00 AM with the local ministry officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to the church, the community, and the staff at Self Regional Healthcare for their meaningful care during this time.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Cold Spring Mennonite School, 168 Cold Spring Church Road, Abbeville, SC 29620.

Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.harrisfuneral.com.

Harris Funeral Home & Cremation Services of Abbeville is assisting the Hochstetler family.

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